Fate is a chance, Destiny is a choice

Valentine day is running near. Some people might be so excited counting days, yet some other might be pondering their relationship. I don't know what you are into..but i did read this great article that might be give you a light bulb in your relationship :)

When we meet right person to love, at a right place and at a right time,
that's a chance.


When u meet someone u are attracted to,
that's not a choice, that's a chance.

Difference is what happens afterwards.
When u take that infatuation, that blowing attraction to next level.
When you decide to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.

If u decides to love a person, even with his faults,

that's not a chance, that's a choice.

When u choose to be with a person, no matter what,
that's a choice

.
Even if u know there are many people out there
who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than ur mate, 

and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same . .
that's a choice.

Infatuation . .
 crush . .
 attraction . .

comes to us by chance.


But,
TRUELOVE that lasts ….is truly a choice.

A choice that we make.

Regarding soul mates,
there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this:
"Fate brings u together, but it's still up to u to make it happen."
I do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone made for you.
But it's still up to u to make choice if you are going to do something about it or not.



We may meet our soul mates by CHANCE,
but
loving and staying with our soul mates is still A CHOICE we have 2 make.


We came to world not by finding someone perfect to love
BUT to learn how to love an imperfect someone.. PERFECTLY


It's a very great chance for me to meet Pink and Yellow.
I love how my choice creates a destiny which puts us together in this blog. ^^~

ps. that scrapbook photo is just a drag and drop photo with free design from smilebox link which pink puts under this post! do you like it? i do..hihi